![]() You know you have those who are much better at impression management is what I call it. Tina: That’s a really really difficult situation and it’s one that’s fairly common. ![]() What recommendations would you have for a woman in that situation with a very, I would say cunning but also squeaky-clean type narcissist? So, they might gaslight in their emails, but they don’t swear, for example, and they show up on time for their parent time most of the time and stuff like that and it’s very hard to prove that they are unhealthy. For women who are in relationships with really shiny abusers, like they know that the written stuff is going to be read. You can show that he showed up late, you can show that he, you know, did these things. He was an alcoholic, which you could prove. When Narcissistic Abusers Show Up “Shiny”Īnne: So in your book, The Narcissist Decoder, which I recommend to everyone (you can find it on Amazon or on her site One Mom’s Battle), in your experience, your ex wrote some pretty insane emails that were obvious blatant lies. I’m grateful to Tina Swithin for coming on today to talk about these things. ![]() I am just in this mess like all of you trying to make my way to peace and safety, and although I feel so much more peaceful I still have serious, serious trials that I’m facing because I share children with my ex, and so I have ongoing problems that I’m dealing with, with an abuser and children. I cannot thank you enough for all that you do, you are being an instrument of the Lord. I know I’m not alone and I’m not crazy and the pain and memories I have are very real. BTR has saved my sanity and has given me hope. So many of you have helped other women in need by giving the podcast a five-star rating. It’s live, multiple sessions a day in every single time zone. Here at Betrayal Trauma Recovery, we see those behaviors as abuse issues and our group is the only betrayal trauma group that really understands this type of abuse. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group is the only unlimited online resource for women who are being emotionally and psychologically abused and having difficulty with sexual coercion issues, as in, they’re not able to give their consent because their husband is secretly using pornography or having an affair or soliciting prostitutes, otherwise known as sexual addiction or compulsive sexual behaviors. Before we get to her, I’d like to thank and acknowledge all of our members of Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group. We started our conversation last week so if you didn’t listen to last week’s episode, go listen to that first and then join us here today. I have Tina Swithin back on today’s episode. Full Transcript:Īnne: Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery, this is Anne. Join today and share your story with other women who understand what you are going through. There are many resources available to you – including the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group. You can do this – but you don’t have to do it alone. Our kids need us to keep our oxygen mask on. ![]() You just never know what’s around that next corner. I’ve seen things that, you know, you would never believe unfold, when somebody is feeling so beaten down and the system is failing them. I have seen the direst circumstances do a complete 180. The reality is, you never know what’s around the next corner. It’s so easy to get beaten down by this system and I’ve had so many dark days where I really questioned if I could keep doing this. You are in the midst of one of the hardest battles of your life. Fighting Your Narcissist For Custody May Be Daunting, But Don’t Give Up Hope Victims can deal with trauma in healthy ways by expressing their feelings to safe people in safe places, the court is, unfortunately, not a safe place to work through trauma. They want victims to react in ways that make them look unstable, unhealthy, and overreactive. But it’s important to understand that abusers want victims to look crazy.
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